POSHEstyle: GingHam Romper & Letting Go

It's crazy to think we are already half way through the year, and summer is quickly making it's way to "until next time!" This year, so far - has been one of changes and transitions - some exhilarating, and some exasperating. But, one thing has kept me true to my resilience - and that is - letting go! 

Last year, this time, I had moved into my new apt in FiDi a few months prior; I had just launched my swim brand - LAPOSHE - my blog was really starting to grow, and I was about to embark on the different, but exciting territory of the real estate business. But, through all these promising accomplishments, I was struggling to keep my smile up and the tears away - because, I was simultaneously experiencing a plato of emotional turmoil and confusion from having my ex - and my heartbreaker - back in my life after 4 years. 

It was through that struggle, that I realized how crucial my emotional health is to my productivity - and though I was still pushing myself to achieve my goals - I could see them suffering. I lost momentum and consistency, I couldn't focus, and I was completely distracted. But, sometimes you need your kryptonite to remind you just how strong you really are, and how far you've come. 

And then...this year happened...and I made a promise to "let it go" and accept that not everything is meant to be, and that's ok! We can't steer someone else's destiny, we can only captain our own - it's ok to choose YOU! That lead me to where I am now - a new chapter, new neighborhood, new apt - filled with positivity, living in the moment, enjoying life, and feeling very optimistic and excited for what's to come :)  

Ok, ok...enough of my personal life banter...lets talk a little fashion and a lot of style. Gingham has been the biggest trend this season, and this Zara romper from 2 years ago was conveniently in my closet waiting for its perfect debut. The streets and modern architecture of my old neighborhood downtown was the perfect backdrop for this clean, structured and chic look. The classic accessories - Chanel bag, Chanel J12 watch, Chanel oversized sunnies and Louboutins - transformed what may be "trendy" right now into what will be "timeless" forever.   

Get The POSHE Look:

Zara Romper 

Chanel Classic 

Chanel J12 Watch

Chanel Sunglasses

Christian Louboutin Pumps 

One Love. One Heart. Different Styles

Poshestyle xo

POSHEstyle: Ripped Jeans + Metallics

Every time my mom sees me wearing these jeans she asks "why do you look like you were attacked by a wild animal" or "like you are homeless and can't afford a good pair of jeans" - she kinda has a valid point..LOL! But, I love a good cool, distressed, rebellious look every now and again. 

I swear by how comfy these Zara boyfriend jeans are - they are my go-to #airportstyle when traveling and are so airy and cool for the summer. I wear them with kicks, heels, sandals - dressed up and dressed down. 

This top is from one of my all time favorite designers - Daniel Silverstain - his style is so NYC - cool, chic and collected! The leather is light and the mesh details breathable, making it wearable in warmer times, but a perfect laying piece for cooler temperatures. The bag is from Katie Lares - she uses unconventional household hardware as accessories - like the handle on this petite beauty. The ring is from the Solomeina collection and makes a statement all on its own - no other jewelry necessary! All these amazing designs are available at Flying Solo NYC - a collective in Soho (434 West Broadway) owned and operated by the designers - that's pretty amazing!   

I literally live in these Kensie shoes, and I am seriously on the hunt to find the exact pair - because I regret not buying a backup. They are neutral, stylish, comfortable - every standard passed for shoe perfection. If you see them anywhere - GRAB THEM!!!!!

I couldn't finish this post without talking about this mural wall I found in Soho - a little boy on a small bicycle challenging the older, aggressive, mean-looking competition on their motorcycles - making his own luck! It wasn't until after seeing the images, that I realized how dynamic and inspirational the message was - and how coincidentally perfect the wall was for this look - rough, rugged jeans and an armor inspired stop - the law of attraction! In life, you can't sit back and be fearful - waiting for things to go your way - you have to be ready for the challenges, ready to fight for what you want, ready to prove your magic - ready to "Let It Rip!!"

Get The POSHE Look: 

Zara Boyfriend Jeans (similar Missguided here & Testudo here) 

Daniel Silverstain Top (visit store) 

Katie Lares Bag (visit store)

Solomeina Ring

Kensie Sandals (similar here & here) 

One Love. One Heart. Different Styles

Poshestyle xo

POSHEstyle: Pretty in Pink - DateNight Yes or No?

Ok guys, so I have a lot of catching up to do - I have been so MIA this year with my blog posts because life has just been craaazy!!! But, I'm back with a vengeance of backed up posts and some killer new content to make it up to you ;) 

So, my colleague wore a flowy, shift dress to work yesterday. She looked so elegant and feminine, I asked if she "had a date later." She replied by saying "in this, no - I would be in a more fitted dress." This spiked the conversation as to what to wear on a date. I generally go for a fit and flare style, or highlight my legs or my shoulders - I feel flirty and feminine. Her "go-to" look is a form-fitted dress or a pencil skirt and top - she feels sexy, yet sophisticated. So the question is, which is more appealing for the man? Hmmm....

A week ago, I met up with my ex-boyfriend for a friendly dinner after work. I wore this pretty pink floral dress from H&M. They say you should always be on "10" when an ex sees you, but I was feeling so casual and relaxed, I didn't put much thought into it. It wasn't until 5 mins before meeting up with him I thought, "I probably shouldn't have worn this frumpy, practically fully covered, no shape defining dress." However, to my surprise, he gave me more compliments on my outfit that evening than he ever had. Needless to say, my "grandma-esque" dress was a hit! 

That just goes to show, that as women, we shouldn't put such stress on what we think a man will or will not like - just be ourselves, be confident and if he is worth it, he'll appreciate it! There is no hard rule on what to wear for a date-night, but make sure you present "you" in a way that makes you feel at your optimal from the inside-out - whether it be "the girl next door", "the sexy vixen", "the fairy princess", "the tomboy" - own it and rock it!!  

To pull this sweet summer look together, I paired Vanessa Wu color-block heels with this dress. They are so comfy and versatile for day to night plans, and also comes in a striking maroon and black combo. For daytime, I suggest carrying a nice lady bag and for evening a pretty clutch like this one from Kalamarie Handbags. They are both available at our designer collective - Flying Solo - located at 434 West Broadway in Soho. Yes we moved...to a gorgeous new space...previously occupied by Roberto Cavalli - how fab!!! 

What is your "go-to" look for a date night? Comment below and tell us what you have experienced makes the best impression for you. I would love to share some of your "date tales" with my followers on instastories. That should be fun :) 

Get The POSHE Look:

H&M Dress (sold out) similar H&M here & YesStyle here

Kalamarie Clutch (on sale) 

Vanessa Wu Sandals (visit store) similar Ferragamo here & Charlotte Russe here 

One Love. One Heart. Different Styles

Poshestyle xo

POSHEstyle: Holiday Gift Guide - KARL WHO? Sweatshirt

It's the season of giving and over the next couple weeks I'll be sharing some of my picks as the perfect gifts this holiday - starting with the chicest, coolest, and most comfortable sweatshirt I own ;) 

Clearly you can tell I have a real obsession with this brand...I've featured it on the blog a couple times, but I truly can't get enough of The Karl Who? sweatshirts from Socialitte! They are my favorite go-to for casually-chic style this season - uber cool with thigh high boots and skinny jeans, or rocked like this, with boyfriend jeans and kicks. The off-the-shoulder trend has been on the radar all year and will continue into the Spring - warm it up for the colder months and wear as a scooped neck layered over a turtleneck...VOILA! (Use code POSHE20 and get 20% off you order)

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Another piece I virtually live and sleep in - these ripped denim from H&M - holy moly are they comfy - I'm addicted!!! A quick DIY tip - I tore them open at the knee but didn't want it to be so exposed, so I used a big safety pin that not only closed it, but gave it an extra edge of downtown chic.

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I accessorized the look with edgy-glam details - this amazing choker from Katie Lares and exquisite rings by Solomeina were the perfect touches (FYI, wear them stacked or as separates). These unique pieces can be found online or at the newest and coolest boutique in Soho - Flying Solo. This concept store is home to 40 NYC designers, who own and operate the store themselves...that means so salespersons, personal experiences, and meeting the creators. I promise you won't be disappointed with the awesome gifts you'll find here (including my swimwear - LAPOSHE - shameless plug - lol) 

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Final details to my "cool-girl" look were my Chanel Boy (because what's cooler than him), Tom Ford aviators and Zara kicks...mission completed! 

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Get The POSHE Look

Socialitte Sweatshirt

H&M Ripped Jeans (similar)

Katie Lares Choker

Solomeina Rings

Chanel Boy Bag

Tom Ford Aviators

Chanel Watch

Zara Sneakers

One Love. One Heart. Different Styles

Poshestyle xo

POSHEstyle: Shopping Smart & Scoring Designer Deals Online!!

I get super excited this time of the year because I know my wardrobe is about to get a major facelift. Why?? Because one of the biggest sale weekend of the year is around the corner...YAY!!! It's November and with it comes Black Friday and Cyber Monday, and all the glorious shopping days in between....

Now, listen to me - shopping cheap does not equate to shopping smart. There is a strategy in getting the best value for your hard earned cash....focus on buying quality not quantity, and shop the sales!! I wear quite a few "reputable brands" but I rarely pay full price, and there is no other feeling for a fashion enthusiast, than scoring a great designer piece at a steal. 

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                                            Flared Paige Denim 70% off Retail at Marshalls

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                              LOFT Silk Camisole Top found at an additional 40% off sale

Plus, Christmas is tomorrow (well not literally) - and holiday shopping can get so stressful - wanting to get friends, family and lovers something really nice, but not having a huge budget to spend on all those gifts. Preparation is key my friends - they will love the gift, and you will love the price ;) 

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So, how do you close the rest of 2016 full of style and free of stress? These are my top five (5) tips for shopping smart online: 

1. Decide on a budget - make a list of what you want and how much they may cost, set  a maximum budget and shop maturely - commit to it!
2. Prepare for the day in advance - check where online you can find your "wishlist", create an account on the sites if you need to, and store items in your basket if you can....don't leave until last minute...time is precious if you want to snag that deal. 
3. Check for pre sales - many retailers are extending their sale before the weekend and you don't want to see your dream item sold out.
4. Make sure you have enough cash/limit on your debit or credit card, or in your paypal account... you don't want to reach checkout and have an oops or FML moment :( 
5. Be victorious and proud of your accomplishment...you just shopped like a champ...CONGRATS!

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For my Caribbean readers this one is especially for you - yes you - I get your messages and emails asking how to get what I am wearing, and haven't been purposely leaving you out. I know the struggle is real when it comes to shopping and shipping to the Caribbean, but I have the perfect solution. 

The CaribShopper app is simple, safe and super convenient - Download the App, Register online, Shop from over 100 US stores, Expect your delivery via DHL - so you too can score big this sales weekend and get all your items delivered directly to your door. Plus, get 10% off shipping with code POSHE10. 

Visit the CaribShopper website here https://www.caribshopper.com/ and check out this video from Caribbean beauties Paris and Roxy for more about how to use this awesome new app! 

"Its Time to Shop Differently, Be a Shopper Not a Shipper"

Get The POSHE Look:

LOFT Silk Cami (similar here)

Paige Flare Denim (similar here)

Tom Ford Aviators

Gucci Soho Disco Bag

Chanel J12 Watch

Daniel Wellington Bracelet

One Love. One Heart. Different Styles

Poshesyle xo